Why do we get hurt?

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Once you think less and feel more, there will be a transformation from hurt to healing. Our thinking has gone so deep that it has polluted even our feelings. Hence, feel the essential and drop the unessential feeling.

Love is the essential feeling that one should have. Love brings connectedness, and the feeling of jealousy gives a disconnection. Everyone wants to be connected, for disconnection creates isolation.

Isolation hurts, for that is a state of disorder.
Lead yourself from 'thinking' to 'feeling' and then to 'being'. Since we do not do this, we are hurt. 'Being' refers to a state of inner void, inner fullness.

In that state, one is free from the disorders of thinking and even feeling.
Also, you can hurt yourself only when you do not have a healthy attitude. One can have the attitude of always being a winner in life. Have you ever thought of how you can always be a winner in life? If you win, you win.

If you lose, you learn and, therefore, you win. If one has this attitude, then one will always be a winner. But don't forget one should celebrate one's winning and learn from one's losing.