Forget expensive schools. Thyrocare founder’s advice to parents for raising 'confident', 'independent' kids
Thyrocare, recently shared his perspective on parenting, emphasizing the importance of raising self-reliant children rather than over-pampering them. In a post on X, he discussed how different parenting approaches shape children's confidence and independence.
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The Two Kinds of Parenting
Velumani, who has interacted with numerous young adults over the past five years, categorized parenting styles into two distinct approaches.
«Met a lot who are in 20s in last 5 yrs. Rich and poor. There are two kinds. 1. Parents did not guide or coach at all. Let to solve all problems on their own. They are clear, confident, independent and courageous. 2. Parents micromanaged by calibrating with their friends and peers. They are confused, stressed, dependent and scared. Parent, Do not pamper,» he wrote.
According to him, children who are allowed to navigate challenges independently grow up to be more self-assured, while those raised under constant supervision tend to struggle with stress and dependence.
Pampering Isn’t About Money
Expanding on the idea of excessive pampering, Velumani explained that it is not necessarily linked to financial status or material gifts but rather to a mindset of blind love and overindulgence.
«Pampering does not need big money. It is blind love. Trying to please. It is not giving big toys or five-star dinners. It is not making children to do on their own. In fact, grandparents do more damages often. Poor parents do often pamper,» he added.
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