Befriend Humility
Humility means the state of being humble. 'If the world gives you lemons, then make lemonade,' goes the saying. Humility is a sign of greatness. The Bhagwad Gita lists humility as a laudable virtue that is integral to knowledge.
Humility is not making yourself small and insignificant. It develops inner strength and stamina. It also develops a feeling of gratitude for what we have been given. It is the storehouse of all other virtues and it is, therefore, extolled as the wealth of divine grace. Truly, humility flowers when we are ready to appreciate other people's efforts and not hinder the progress of others.
Buddha was walking with his disciples. A man came and started abusing Buddha because his brother had become Buddha's follower. Buddha calmly sat looking at the man. After some time, the man stopped. So, Buddha asked, 'Have you finished talking?' He said, 'No,' and continued abusing. Again, after some time, the man stopped. Buddha asked, 'Have you finished talking?' The man said angrily, 'Yes. What do you have to say?' Buddha replied, 'If I gift you something and you don't take it, with whom does the gift stay?' The man said, 'with you'. Buddha smilingly responded, 'Dear sir, I do not accept your gift.'
Smallness adores and adorns itself — greatness is humble. When pride comes, then comes disgrace; with humility comes wisdom.
